“Follow your bliss.” This was another suggested post title my wife made several days ago. She and I both initially discounted it as a difficult thread to follow, especially in light of the fact that some of my previous posts have dealt with the same theme. For instance Taking Chances, Where Did I Go Right?, and the most recent of these posts, What’s Your Dance? Obviously, I must think this is an important concept, because here is yet another post concerning taking action. Bear with me.
Webster defines bliss as “complete happiness.” After all, isn’t that what we all want? In the discussion that followed the initial suggestion, we both agreed that following one’s bliss may be very difficult. In doing so, we may have to give up certain things, let go of some people in our lives, close doors, and burn bridges. These are not easy tasks to accomplish, and yet, if we are going to “follow our bliss,” we must commit to doing whatever it takes.
Some of you may be old enough to remember Andy Griffith, not as Matlock or as Sheriff Taylor, but as Deacon Andy doing monologues in the early 1950’s, such as “What It Was, Was Football,” and “Romeo and Juliet.” I had this record, and listened to it for hours. In the “Romeo and Juliet” monologue, Deacon Andy says,”And he was so struck by her that he give a soliloquy right there. He did. And it wasn’t about bein’ or not bein’, it was about doin’ or not doin’. Well, the dos, they won out over the don’ts…” What a great idea.
I guess “Romeo and Juliet” may not be the best example in this case. Even though they tried to follow their bliss, which was a life together, they both ended up dead at a very young age. I’m not sure any of us is ready to die for our dreams.
So the question we must ask ourselves is not about being or not being. In this famous soliloquy from “Hamlet”, which we were all required to read in school, the Prince is trying to decide whether living or dying (committing suicide) is the better choice. Hopefully his circumstances were far different from yours. Rather, we must ask ourselves the “doin’ question.”
There is a Broadway Musical called “A Chorus Line” which is loosely based on Shakespeare’s “King Lear.” [Pause for comic effect] OK, not really, but since I was on this Shakespearean roll, so to speak, I thought I might be able to tie it all together in a nice bundle. Anyway, the premise of the show is the sacrifices and struggles involved in trying to have a career performing on a Broadway stage. One song in the show, What I Did For Love, has a phrase that is appropriate here. It says, “Kiss today goodbye, and point me t’ward tomorrow . We did what we had to do. Can’t regret, won’t forget what I did for love.”
If we want to be happy, what is it that we need to do? Commit to those tasks, and as the Nike slogan says, “Just Do It!”